When it comes to encountering the homeless, I have mixed feelings. I grew up with a handicapped father whose life mottoes included pulling yourself up from your bootstraps, not falling prey to your circumstances, life is what you make of it, that whole shebang. So when I see my brother or sister with a handwritten cardboard sign at a stoplight, I have the why can't they get a job thought, followed by the I would give them money but I don't know what I'm truly funding thought. Then I have what I might call my Christian sympathy. If Jesus was walking the earth today, wouldn't he interact with the homeless? He wouldn't pass by them in his car, unsure of if he should give or not give.
So, knowing that about me, I met a very nice homeless man the other day. My friend Madi and I were sitting on a bench outside of Starbucks, enjoying the afternoon sun, when a man walking his bike, stopped to talk to us.
It was clear by the cardboard sign tucked under his arm and his worn clothing that he was at the very least begging if not homeless.
So he stopped to talk to us, commenting on our coffee and talking about though he's grown up on the streets he can't give up his coffee.
Normally I would have a tight smile and might try to give hints to end the conversation but there was something different about this man, he was nice to talk to. He asked if I went to school around Westwood (I get it all the time, I have the skin of a 17-year-old) and I told him I was a high school teacher. He talked about his mom and how she was a teacher and how he rarely paid attention in school because he had his mom to teach him.
He said in school he studied the clouds outside, not giving much of a care to what his teachers were teaching. I could picture a younger version of this man, sitting at his desk at school, gazing out the window at the shapes of the clouds. The man before me had weathered, leathery skin that had seen many winter nights and summer days, and I couldn't help but think of my students. Were any of them slipping through the cracks of school, destined to a life like this man?
He continued to talk about getting kicked out of the house early and getting into all sorts of trouble thereafter.
And then he asked for my name. Jacky. Short for Jacquelyn? Yup.
And he asked for Madi's. Short for Madeline? Madison.
He nodded and gripped the handlebars of his bike like he might be finished with this conversation.
I asked what his name was. George.
George and I talked for another 10 minutes about his name and getting called George of the Jungle and Curious George and even though some of his words slurred together and at some points he lost his train of thought, I really enjoyed talking to George, and I've thought of him almost every day since.
Our greatest human desires are to be seen and to be known. So maybe instead of treating homelessness like it's either a desire to work or not to work or a will to make something of oneself or a state of complacency, I can just be content to know people, to ask for their names and tell them mine, to listen.
If you didn't go to the Skate Church you might not know Jeff, who can be seen sitting beside a cardboard sign or walking all throughout West Seattle, especially the Junction area. I may have met Jeff over a dozen times and he still doesn't remember me, but he's a person. More than that he's the man who, when the church was invited to my best friend's wedding, found a suit and attended her wedding sober.
I want to begin to treat people like people, what a concept. Jesus had meaningful, intention interactions with people and I want to live the same way. Lord guide my steps and my words. Help me to love people as you did.
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Monday, March 23, 2015
Unsung Hero
I have a new unsung hero. Normally my heroes are writers throughout time who put themselves out there and make their words known--Tolstoy, you're my homeboy--but they aren't my focus today.
Today my unsung hero is a 17-year-old girl who just gave up her baby for adoption.
Backtrack.
There's a young lady in my life who didn't plan to get pregnant but life happened and she found herself in a tough situation. Halfway through her term she switched to online school and didn't come around youth group so it wasn't until this last week that I saw her for the first time in a while.
I had the privilege of giving her a ride home and we caught up. She spent two days with her healthy baby boy before she handed him over to the adoptive family that she chose.
The more I talked to her the more apparent it became to me that this girl grew up fast. This was not the giggly teenager I knew from months ago, she had matured through this situation.
She told me that her deciding factor in choosing adoption was when she found out that her baby was a boy. She had been told how important it was for a boy to grow up with a father. She couldn't give him that and she wanted to give him his best chance.
I was awestruck. When had this teenage girl grown up and become so sacrificial?
As she told me about this Christian couple that she had chosen for her son, this couple who were unable to have children on their own, I could see how God beautifully orchestrated this open adoption.
So I dropped off this young lady at home, told her how proud I was of her, and I cried the whole way home. I could not believe how selfless this young lady had become, wanting the best for her son, even if it meant she wouldn't be the one to raise him. (Note: I also have some brave young ladies in my life who are choosing to raise their babies and I have nothing but love and respect for them.)
I cried and cried and could not stop, especially when this verse came to mind:
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave up his only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."
For the first time in a long time I was actually able to feel the weight of this verse. God loved us so he gave. He gave up his only Son so that those who believe in Him could have eternal life.
And I cried and I cried. How could God do that? How could He give us his only Son that we would accuse and beat and crucify. I wept with gratitude and with a lack of understanding thanked God for His sacrifice, for his Son.
And I thanked him for this young lady in my life who showed me what sacrificial love can look like.
Today my unsung hero is a 17-year-old girl who just gave up her baby for adoption.
Backtrack.
There's a young lady in my life who didn't plan to get pregnant but life happened and she found herself in a tough situation. Halfway through her term she switched to online school and didn't come around youth group so it wasn't until this last week that I saw her for the first time in a while.
I had the privilege of giving her a ride home and we caught up. She spent two days with her healthy baby boy before she handed him over to the adoptive family that she chose.
The more I talked to her the more apparent it became to me that this girl grew up fast. This was not the giggly teenager I knew from months ago, she had matured through this situation.
She told me that her deciding factor in choosing adoption was when she found out that her baby was a boy. She had been told how important it was for a boy to grow up with a father. She couldn't give him that and she wanted to give him his best chance.
I was awestruck. When had this teenage girl grown up and become so sacrificial?
As she told me about this Christian couple that she had chosen for her son, this couple who were unable to have children on their own, I could see how God beautifully orchestrated this open adoption.
So I dropped off this young lady at home, told her how proud I was of her, and I cried the whole way home. I could not believe how selfless this young lady had become, wanting the best for her son, even if it meant she wouldn't be the one to raise him. (Note: I also have some brave young ladies in my life who are choosing to raise their babies and I have nothing but love and respect for them.)
I cried and cried and could not stop, especially when this verse came to mind:
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave up his only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."
For the first time in a long time I was actually able to feel the weight of this verse. God loved us so he gave. He gave up his only Son so that those who believe in Him could have eternal life.
And I cried and I cried. How could God do that? How could He give us his only Son that we would accuse and beat and crucify. I wept with gratitude and with a lack of understanding thanked God for His sacrifice, for his Son.
And I thanked him for this young lady in my life who showed me what sacrificial love can look like.
Sunday, January 25, 2015
Life, Interrupted
“But when it pleased God…” –Galatians 1:15
If you are like me, you hate to be interrupted. Whether it’s
while you are speaking, or when you have your entire day mapped out before you and something unexpected happens. You like to always know what's coming.
It’s comfortable, it’s safe.
But God wants us to live interruptable
lives.
How many times have you allowed God to “interrupt” your life
and your plans? We have to learn to give God room to move. Constantly, we make
plans for our day, saying this and that will happen, assuming that we can
control when God will fall into our lives. But we forget that God comes and
goes as He chooses. What if we were having a meeting, and all of the sudden He wanted to move? Or if we were hanging out with friends, and surprise! He wants
you to pray for someone.
Can you imagine how Noah felt when God wanted him to build
an ark? Imagine how he seemed to his friends and family. But when he was
floating safely over the water, with his family safe and everyone else dying
around him, can you imagine his relief? He listened to God, and God did not
disappoint.
He doesn't always come in the same way, but He does come.
Look for Him. That’s how you make room for Him. Always keep your eyes alert for Him,
but never expect Him to come when you expect Him to.
“However much we may know God, the great lesson to learn is
that at any minute He may break in.” –Oswald Chambers
I think we always forget that God is His own “person.” He
decides when He wants to arrive. “When it pleases God,” He shows up. It has nothing
to do with our plans.
Are we humble enough to allow God to mess up our plans?
“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s
purpose that prevails.” –Proverbs 19:21
Always expect God to show up, and when he does, listen to
what He says. Something amazing will
happen. His plans are better, much better, than ours!
Prayer:
Lord, interrupt me. Do it all the time. Don’t let me become
destroyed by my own plans, because I know they will fail me. You know what is
best for me, and what is best for your children. If you need me, use me. If you
want me to suddenly stop driving and start worshipping or praying, let me know.
Change my heart, Lord, I am prideful and childish when it comes to my plans
being interrupted. So, Lord, change me and mold me into the interruptable
person that you want me to be.
Thursday, January 22, 2015
What are you looking at?
"Eyes on me... Eyes on me."
Have you noticed how hard it is to pursue God when you're having a good season? The greatest spiritual difficulty is to focus on God, and to depend on Him, even when we don't feel we need a savior. Difficulties make it almost impossible not to look at God, and His blessings will, a lot of the time, take our focus off of Him. Take the message of the Sermon on the Mount: we need to start whittling down all of our interests and passions until our mind, heart, and body are completely and totally focused on Jesus Christ. Until we are “looking unto Him.”
Have you noticed how hard it is to pursue God when you're having a good season? The greatest spiritual difficulty is to focus on God, and to depend on Him, even when we don't feel we need a savior. Difficulties make it almost impossible not to look at God, and His blessings will, a lot of the time, take our focus off of Him. Take the message of the Sermon on the Mount: we need to start whittling down all of our interests and passions until our mind, heart, and body are completely and totally focused on Jesus Christ. Until we are “looking unto Him.”
Sometimes,
we find ourselves focusing on the lives of the “saints,” AKA those "goody two-shoes” people of
this world, and find our focus has completely shifted from the One who matters most. Focusing on saints, or even trying to
become like a saint, will not bring about our salvation. When we look at God,
it’s not that we WILL be saved, as if it hasn't occurred yet… when we look at Him, we ARE saved. If our
focus is right, we will find what we are looking for. Our problems, our bad
attitudes, our depression will cease when we look unto Him.
Do you believe it?
Do you believe it?
No matter
what trial you are going through, look to Him, build your hope on Him.
“’Look unto Me,’ and salvation is, the moment you look.” –Oswald Chambers
Nat's Reflection:
It seems
that whenever I have an issue, I look everywhere BESIDES to Him for the answer.
I read books, I eat food, I lounge on the couch watching a movie, when all I
need to do is look to Him. I worry so much about the future of my child, and my
children, and if I will be a good parent, and the entire time I forget that I
just need to look at Him, and I am saved. He will save me from being a bad
parent. No, He already has saved me
from being a bad parent. I will be a good, not perfect, mother for my children
because I look unto Him. He has saved me.
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